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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 2:20 am Post subject: What is love ??? |
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On a More Serious Matter i would like to Know what is love to you.?
For me love is when you can only think of that person as a part of you.. Love is when You have so many emotions you cry when your happy..You have this tingling Feeling running trough Your chest..and it moves down to your toes..Love is when you see this person at that moment you could be on Fire and only think of them..Love is when you get the emotions And cant help but cry not tears of sad or happy you just cry..Love dosnt Mean that Sex is is need in-Fact sex has Nothing to do with Love..Making love is what love is were you and your partner are one you dont just feel there body Agenst yours but you feel there love for you..Them who they are and what they feel for you..This is just in a few words What love is to me.. _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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Chaosengine Rank: Super Veteran
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:10 am Post subject: |
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Nicely worded.
As for me... well... I've never been in love. It'll be the thirty-second year I've been a part of this mortal coil come March and it's never happened. I'm starting to think that there's something seriously wrong here. Am I that vapid and empty? Feeling like a soulless monster isn't a good thing, let me tell you.
I can sum it up best like this... "Love is a rare and wonderful opportunity..."
Like opportunity, it doesnt happen for everyone.
Peace. _________________ "One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster.
The bars are temples, but the pearls ain't free...
You'll find a god in every golden cloister,
And if you're lucky then the god's a she..." |
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Xebulon Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Love in general or romantic love? From your description I would assume the latter. Hmm... no, no I can most certainly say that I do not know. Though when I stop and think about it, it's never really been a matter of pressing concern. And to be perfectly honest, I'd rather prefer to keep it that way as life is far too complicated without adding something so unpredictable. _________________ I like old jokes. With them I know when to laugh. |
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Lidia_Apricot Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:46 am Post subject: |
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I agree with Mr. Xebulon. I, too, have not ever experience those "tingly feeling" or "butterfly stomach" love like everyone see in everyday life or in romance movie. I'm young in my age, and everyone know that teenager and young adult have love life like an "off and on switch." Well...most of them, anyway.
"What is Love?".....You three gentlemen have already got the definition put down, so I couldn't think of anything. |
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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 6:24 am Post subject: |
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Thank you all..for your kind words see i am A romantic i have put together 15 cuppels together but yet i Have found a love my Self at all i agree with you in some forms people say you need to be in love to know love.. i was i love once but the sad thing is when i told here how i felt she well Laughed in my face...ever since then iv never ben the same to be honest..i may be alone for the rest of my life...i dont want to be but when u have a glass heart it can easaly be broken.. _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 6:37 am Post subject: |
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the sad thing is i long to cuddle near fire with some one..to awake evry morning and see the sun in there eye i long for that..to be held and to be loved by another..the sad thing is as a male i go by looks but looks arnt evr thing.. i want a soul to go with a face but to be honest i do want that person to look nice but i prefer a kind soul then a body..but as it stands iv ben single for 4 almost 5 ears no dates what so ever.. i think i will all ways be the girls best friend insted of a lover..T-T _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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Mystic Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 7:48 am Post subject: |
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Baby don't hurt me. _________________ Oh, I'd tell myself
What good do you do
Convince myself |
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Ashton Gray Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 8:37 am Post subject: |
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I could'nt even begin to describe what it is to me, so I shant even try. Besides, I'm of the opinion that trying to describe something so inexplicably magnificent just degrades and cheapens it in the end. Not that I'm saying anything against you people trying to explain it, that's just me. _________________ Silentium est aurum |
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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 10:19 am Post subject: |
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Mystic wrote: | Baby don't hurt me. |
? So whoe was that to lol alot of people have posted _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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Drofgod969 Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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TheBlackCat wrote: | iv ben single for 4 almost 5 ears no dates what so ever.. i think i will all ways be the girls best friend insted of a lover..T-T |
Trust me you are doing a lot better than some... I am 19 years old. I have never had a girl friend or had my first kiss yet... T.T _________________ yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. that's why it is called the present.
quoted by master Oogway off kong fu panda
Some weep, some cry, some make couches fly. - Katmir
Let me stand behind you in times of peace, let me stand infront of you in times of war, let me stand beside you as a equall, as a friend. |
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Tsavo Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:15 pm Post subject: |
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Mystic wrote: | Baby don't hurt me. |
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that. Damn thing is going to be going through my mind all night now. _________________ Owner of the Lion's Den Pub.
Tsavo's story:
Somewhere to Help You Sleep |
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henkcobra Royal Member of BonBon
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Cole Blacke Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8UdYd1HgG8
Henk, you didn't do anything, it's just from the song.
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Ashton Gray Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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What the hell....? _________________ Silentium est aurum |
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Cole Blacke Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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Fixed it. |
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Lidia_Apricot Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:33 pm Post subject: |
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Do you have any idea how many flash and video I've seen use that song XD. |
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henkcobra Royal Member of BonBon
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Lidia_Apricot Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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henkcobra wrote: | Lidia_Apricot wrote: | Do you have any idea how many flash and video I've seen use that song XD. |
I don't know. tell me please.
Lidia if dillon stays to long away would you than post at the topic of the tea meeting of me appachi drodel crimson and dillon
and some other rp's are welcome to. |
First of all, Mr. Henk, it was a rhetorical question.
Secondly, we wait till Dillon post his part. There will be a time when a person could not come to this forum for a reason. We just have to be patient. |
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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:24 pm Post subject: |
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did I mis somthing whos dillon ? _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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Lidia_Apricot Royal Member of BonBon
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LabrnMystic Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 2:27 am Post subject: |
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*Begins to bop his head slightly like the classic skit from Saturday Night Love to "What is Love."* _________________ The suspense is killing me. I hope it will last. |
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Lidia_Apricot Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:00 am Post subject: |
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LabrnMystic wrote: | *Begins to bop his head slightly like the classic skit from Saturday Night Love to "What is Love."* |
*facepalm* Every time I see that scene, I keep on thinking how they continue bobbing their head, too much, then their head bob off their body XD. |
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Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 2:25 pm Post subject: |
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Like Ashton, I find it difficult to describe love. Though I find parts of Phil Collins's A Groovy Kind of Love to be quite good at describing it. Especially the lines "When I'm in your arms, nothing seems to matter, my whole world could shatter, I don't care". _________________ Wow, sarcasm! That's original. |
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BreathDeep Rank: Rookie
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 5:21 am Post subject: |
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when a man loves a woman~ *breaks into song*...j/k
well there is alot of different kinds of love such as man&man or even woman&woman love is unique its hard to discride, and my self i think its a wonderful thing to tell the truth, i think people have the right to love the person(s) they deeply care for. _________________ Hay!, I'm back from where i was..at, how is everything? |
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Kasumi Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 7:31 am Post subject: |
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I cannot tell if the opening question was serious or not. I'm guessing that he wasn't entirely serious judging from the responses.
But if you want a serious answer, I think trying to answer a philosophical question like "What is love?" is about as hard as trying to answer something equally vague, like "What is beauty?" If you're talking about the romantic kind, then it's something that philosophers, poets, and writers (including bad ones like myself) have been trying to define for a long time. I'm not sure if you can write it easily in words since it's not like everybody gets to fall in love. |
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Mystic Royal Member of BonBon
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 6:23 am Post subject: |
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BreathDeep wrote: | when a man loves a woman~ *breaks into song*...j/k
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I told those fudge-packers I liked his music.
Sorry, couldn't help myself with mention that and recently watching Office Space.
As for the rest of you, its an easy question, you just can't find the words. Like many other emotions and symbols in anyone's life, it is something built into you that needs no explanation. You'll know if its love, because you'll feel it within your mind, your heart, or in your gut. A strange connection on a non-physical level (though physical can be a part of it) that makes you feel connected to something or someone. _________________ Oh, I'd tell myself
What good do you do
Convince myself |
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 12:40 pm Post subject: |
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An important distinction: Love is a two-way state, meaning it requires reciprocation of feelings from another. If you think you're in love with a woman, and she doesn't even know your name, then I hate to break it to you, kiddo, but it ain't really love, it's stalking. And she isn't that into you. _________________ Johnny's Fanfics (including Sureshot! A Bon Bon Tale)
Johnny's backstory
Johnny, Mark II (Project Aten character) |
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TheBlackCat Rank: Senior Member
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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im talking about the kind between two people. Wether a gay or straght cupple. just as how do you feel when your with that speatial some 1 ? so in way the romintic type not the dictonary term. *please stay on topic* thank you _________________ ..Hmm well Love to me is a bond of two souls becoming one..But some of us put a Shield up to ward off other souls..Some of us Would rather be a Friend then more..Or is this all a Lie thats for me To Know and you To Figure out |
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LabrnMystic Royal Member of BonBon
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Gay or Straight? Romantic? Are you sure your talking about love or trying to find the difference between love and lust?
The big difference there is mostly physical. _________________ The suspense is killing me. I hope it will last. |
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