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Caroline Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 7:07 pm Post subject: Silvador |
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((Alright, why should I bother getting to know you?
I hermit myself. That's a known here.
You, on the other hand, do spend a lot of time cussing me out, and calling me a vast amount of vulgar and harsh words. As such, either you're proving my opinion of you as correct, or you're also not bothering to get to know me.
I did, in fact, attempt to bury the hatchet with you via a PM on Fur Affinity. A PM that, as far as I could tell, you flatly ignored. That's an uncharacteristly bold move for someone who could be considered painfully shy. And... you ignored it.
As such, I don't care to get to know you. I tried, and you didn't.
So... the tennis ball is in your court, Silvador. Why should I bother getting to know you?)) |
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Silvador Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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I ignored the note to avoid it turning into an argument. But apparently you want to persist.
I have done NOTHING to you to warrant your verbal abuse. I have not reached out to you because you have been quiet and, as you say "hermitting yourself". Clearly you haven't wanted high social contact or you would have actively socialised a bit more.
But I am not going to sit back and say nothing when you openly insult me. You started this. Not me. You are the one who has made all the first moves. You want me to be nice to you? Try being nice to me first. _________________
 
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Caroline Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 7:36 pm Post subject: |
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((...9000 posts, Silvador, and you have nothing to say?
I have posted. Mayhaps I haven't been... as verbose as some, but I have posted. I don't feel the need to comment on every topic or reply or whatnot that graces the globe. But, I do wish people happy birthday. I do congratulate people for completing classes. And I post to some other topics I find interesting, such as Symphony's idea for homes in BonBon. As such I have socialized with other members here... and... yet you're the only one who doesn't seem to accept me for myself.
I don't need to be nice to you. You haven't earned it. As I posted in a different post, I don't like you Silvador. And what was your reply? A "sad face". As if you thought I was just going to smile and say "Ah, I was just kidding". *shrug* Sorry... that's... not who I am.
And, I suppose, as such, with our current... deadlock. It'll stay that way. I'll continue to have my... sense of humor. And you'll continue to take offense at it, and throw several vulgar epitaphs back at me.
So the dance continues.)) |
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xivk Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 7:47 pm Post subject: |
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*noted* _________________ Fursona Info.
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Silvador Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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What?!
If you want to be "quiet" and post with more "purpose" than some of us others and just leave it at that, then that is fine by me. But don't think I am just going to "accept that it is how you are" when you verbally attack me.
Sense of humour? You call each of your negative comments towards me humour? Seriously, what kind of responce were you expecting to "I don't like you". A happy face? I don't give a rats fucking ass if you don't like me. But if you are going to directly assault me, I am not going to just take it.
And if you have a problem with me having 9000+ posts, well I'm sorry for having a lot to say. It's called being a part of the conversation. I understand if you don't want to be as social as some of us are, but if you are going ot take offense at it, perhaps a forum is not the place for you. People are going ot talk. People are going to post; some more than others. Maybe you should try accepting that that is who I am. If I have something I want to add to a conversation, I will add it, be it a simple one line joke, comment or whole paragraph.
Where do you get off judging me when you don't even fucking know me. Earned you being nice to me? It was my understanding that when two people first meet, nice is the default demeanour. But very little you have ever said to me has been nice, so why the fuck should I be nice in return. _________________
 
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Caroline Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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((Thread-o-mancy...
http://forums.pleasurebonbon.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=106001&highlight=#106001
So... I guess you forgot about the first couple of times you posted to the one break-down I had on the forum? My harsh and bleak sense of humor was first mentioned there.
Anyway, I suppose then we're done with these... talks. I'm sorry if my attitude towards you soured. I'm obviously at fault.
In the future, I will not post about you to newcomers. I will not reply to any of your posts. I will not use any of your role-play characters without your express, written, permission.
Is that acceptable?)) |
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The Adept Royal Member of BonBon

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Silvador Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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The Adept wrote: | Caroline i wouldn't try with silvador its been proven several times before he likes s to start Fights so don't feed his ego please. This is simply how he is | Alright. Fine. You win. I don't need to put up with this garbage. Fuck you, Adept. Fuck you, Caroline. Fuck everyone of you! I've had enough of your fucking shit.
Good bye. Good riddance. _________________
 
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Rune174 Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 11:15 pm Post subject: |
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Silv, do not do this. Some of us do accept you as you are, but you make yourself into your own enemy when you say crass things about other people. Treat others as you want to be treated, and I can note many things on your part how many times you have just blatantly bashed other members or made snide remarks about other member's opinions. So how can you expect the lot of us to not treat you in the same manner? _________________
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dragonfly Rank: Super Veteran
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 1:11 pm Post subject: |
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silvador's one of those people that loves insulting upsetting and just genreally being a asshole to everyone around him
if he's not makeing someone misrable thn he's misrable as i know this as i was the very first person he took a crack at and the thing is unlike a few people i retlate back to his insults
witch he dosnt like at all so caroline i know i dont really talk to ya hell ya probaly dont even now who i really am but i am fully on ya side though this
and ya im probaly gonna get attacked for this but in my mind i dont care really _________________ let my chains be broken so i can fly
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Hoshiginiro Rank: Super Veteran

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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 12:40 am Post subject: |
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ok that does it leave silv alone hes not a bad guy he just overreacts to things i dont think its right of you to take shots at him _________________ Star Silver
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Katmir Rank: Super Veteran

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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 6:20 am Post subject: |
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Hoshiginiro wrote: | ok that does it leave silv alone hes not a bad guy he just overreacts to things i dont think its right of you to take shots at him |
I apologize...
Can I take body shots off him? _________________ "In Excelsis Neo."
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Mayfield Rank: Super Veteran

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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 12:32 pm Post subject: |
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Katmir wrote: | Can I take body shots off him? | ._. That doesn't seem right. >.> _________________ "I have currently run out of fucks to give." - Me
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Tearlach Royal Member of BonBon

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Drofgod969 Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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Tearlach wrote: | If I may hazard an opinion here.
I think that we should now close this thread and bury it in the past. Everyone has said what they think and perhaps now that has cleared the air on the forums.
Let us ALL start afresh and put our differences behind us. |
Kinda wish i could have thought of saying something like that... _________________ yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. that's why it is called the present.
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LabrnMystic Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 8:08 am Post subject: |
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Ahh. But I just showed up with my popcorn Tearlach.
There was an outcry about his vulgarness when he first visited and no surprise it persists. I don't appreciate, but I tend to ignore people's aggressive rudeness.
Caroline, as isolated as you may appear, I feel we've connected to an extent and have at least warranted a thread from you wishing me well, so I'd like to think I'm counted as a friend, and have a feeling its true.
But lets face it people. We're not going to run this forum as politely as the city of Bon Bon. *Shrugs, holding hands up in a "surrender," fashion* There's just not enough random, open sex going on to mellow everyone out. _________________ The suspense is killing me. I hope it will last. |
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xivk Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 9:32 am Post subject: |
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LabrnMystic wrote: | Ahh. But I just showed up with my popcorn Tearlach.
There was an outcry about his vulgarness when he first visited and no surprise it persists. I don't appreciate, but I tend to ignore people's aggressive rudeness.
Caroline, as isolated as you may appear, I feel we've connected to an extent and have at least warranted a thread from you wishing me well, so I'd like to think I'm counted as a friend, and have a feeling its true.
But lets face it people. We're not going to run this forum as politely as the city of Bon Bon. *Shrugs, holding hands up in a "surrender," fashion* There's just not enough random, open sex going on to mellow everyone out. |
We need law enforcement around these here parts mistah. _________________ Fursona Info.
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Crow Rank: Mr. Fabulous
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2011 8:18 pm Post subject: |
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My opinion, deal with it. I haven't been on here long, and I know I've taken my hits at Silv, but he, in my opinion, is one of the better RPers. I mean, take Furrynerd for example, his grammar is atrocious and all, but we still deal with him. Everyone has their flaws but really, don't get so butthurt on the interwebz, or you should just shut off your internet service. You may not like my opinion but I think of Silv as a good friend. _________________
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Lancelot Champlange Rank: Super Veteran

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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 8:19 am Post subject: |
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I'll admit that Silvador is certainly not one of my favorite people here. We have had our confrontations before. But be that as it may, I will concede that he is an excellent roleplayer despite his rather brusque nature. _________________ My fursonas |
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Crow Rank: Mr. Fabulous
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 8:30 am Post subject: |
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furrynerd wrote: | Hey don't bring me into this! look sil iz ok but he has that flaw of starting thing's. |
Ha! My bad bro, but you do need to learn how to spell check and slow down your typing a bit and I think everyone would agree with me on that...
Overall take into account Silvs activity...He may be an ass sometimes, but we all can be...Honestly, Caroline, I haven't seen you much on the forums and clearly from your post count your not as active here as Silv is. This entire thread was uncalled for and just goes to show your level of immaturity to call silv out like this.
I remember before I actually joined May pointed out to me that there was a thread started to actually banish Silv from the forums (if I recall correctly) of course that never happened, so you need to back off and leave the poor guy alone..maybe he has hardships in his life that cause him to be like that, you have no idea, and I doubt you've bothered to find out. Learn to be more empathetic please...and that goes for a majority of you. I'm not trying to step on any toes here, but this has really kinda pissed me off (more so now that I'm actually awake) _________________
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xivk Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 9:04 am Post subject: |
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So why are we still posting in this thread? _________________ Fursona Info.
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The Adept Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 9:07 am Post subject: |
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Crow wrote: | furrynerd wrote: | Hey don't bring me into this! look sil iz ok but he has that flaw of starting thing's. |
Ha! My bad bro, but you do need to learn how to spell check and slow down your typing a bit and I think everyone would agree with me on that...
Overall take into account Silvs activity...He may be an ass sometimes, but we all can be...Honestly, Caroline, I haven't seen you much on the forums and clearly from your post count your not as active here as Silv is. This entire thread was uncalled for and just goes to show your level of immaturity to call silv out like this.
I remember before I actually joined May pointed out to me that there was a thread started to actually banish Silv from the forums (if I recall correctly) of course that never happened, so you need to back off and leave the poor guy alone..maybe he has hardships in his life that cause him to be like that, you have no idea, and I doubt you've bothered to find out. Learn to be more empathetic please...and that goes for a majority of you. I'm not trying to step on any toes here, but this has really kinda pissed me off (more so now that I'm actually awake) |
DOnt be hating on caroline now crow. Silv had his chances and he lost it. Good roleplayer or not. and you are the one who needs to back off. But i forgive you since you dont know better you should leave this to people who have been around long enough to see how he is. and a fun fact for you crow since your defending silvador. he is the reason Several threads have been locked. we honestly dont need him on this forums untill he changes his attitude _________________ A fact of life: After monday and tuesday even the calender says WTF...
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Crow Rank: Mr. Fabulous
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 9:51 am Post subject: |
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The Adept wrote: | Crow wrote: | furrynerd wrote: | Hey don't bring me into this! look sil iz ok but he has that flaw of starting thing's. |
Ha! My bad bro, but you do need to learn how to spell check and slow down your typing a bit and I think everyone would agree with me on that...
Overall take into account Silvs activity...He may be an ass sometimes, but we all can be...Honestly, Caroline, I haven't seen you much on the forums and clearly from your post count your not as active here as Silv is. This entire thread was uncalled for and just goes to show your level of immaturity to call silv out like this.
I remember before I actually joined May pointed out to me that there was a thread started to actually banish Silv from the forums (if I recall correctly) of course that never happened, so you need to back off and leave the poor guy alone..maybe he has hardships in his life that cause him to be like that, you have no idea, and I doubt you've bothered to find out. Learn to be more empathetic please...and that goes for a majority of you. I'm not trying to step on any toes here, but this has really kinda pissed me off (more so now that I'm actually awake) |
DOnt be hating on caroline now crow. Silv had his chances and he lost it. Good roleplayer or not. and you are the one who needs to back off. But i forgive you since you dont know better you should leave this to people who have been around long enough to see how he is. and a fun fact for you crow since your defending silvador. he is the reason Several threads have been locked. we honestly dont need him on this forums untill he changes his attitude |
So you'd rather see activity go down from someone who is a great roleplayer, but has issues with loosing his temper sometimes, instead of calmly talking to him about it behind closed doors? I've run several gaming communities and there is ALWAYS a troll in them, usually a few since the communities number in the high hundreds as opposed to here, which has maybe 20 active members on a daily basis...
I apologize if I am jumping on you, but from the perspective of someone who has run online communities, there are better ways to deal with this than the steps that have been taken. Has anyone bothered to ask Silv his position on this? I've talked to him, and always remember that there are two sides to every story. _________________
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 12:00 pm Post subject: |
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Alrighty then, this thing ought to have been buried and killed off a good while ago. Kudos to you for bringing back the dead Crow. Not exactly the smartest move out there bro.
Let's see where we can begin.......
Crow? It doesn't really matter how many cmmunities you have been to, run, etc.. Troll or no troll, Silv has had his bad actions here and all and people are angry with him. You cannot exactly stand up from your computer, reach into it and change their opinions,m especially when other people have far more experience with the problem at hand. It really doesn't help also that you are bringing back a dead thread. Silv has his problems and eitherway, be it that he is a great roleplayer or not, doesn't count for squat when the problem is something that hasn't been properly handled on both sides. Silv has overreacted in the past, he has instigated such things and already has some dark reputation here so to speak. Thus, it is natural that others will automatically vouch for his departure. I don't like it either, but Silv vouched to leave. It is his decision to have done so. Wether he decides to return or some of us convince him to return, is upto him and them. There is no further need to prolog his thread.
As for Adept. Standing up for Caroline as you are is also wrong. Why? Because really, was there even a need to make a thread and call out to him? To call out to his post count? Hell, was there ever a need for anyone of the other people who weren't involved here to decide to suddenly gang up on Silvador and boost up Caroline's defense? They had their own meassure's of dealing with this and there really was no excuse whatsoever to allow you all to gang up as you all did. The inmaturity lies not only with Silvador, but with Caroline as well. Things such as these are not things to overreact over, call out in public or even openly address in such a manner. As Crow said, these are things to be discussed behind closed doors. The entire thread and it's calling out is inmature in itself. We only prove that, the further we post in it while we try to defend them.
Overall.....Crow? Stop defending Silvador's name and saying that he is a great Roleplayer. It makes you look like an RP Sexed maniac and that the forums are all about RP. If you want Silvador back, try to convince him to return like the rest of us, savvy?
Adept, too blunt and too early to tell. Silvador is who he is. We can voice how displeased we are with his actions, but to downright say he doesn't belong on the forums until he changes his attitude is completely rude. For him to change his attitude is up to him and if you have a problem with it, you can tell him. But saying that he shouldn't return because of it is wrong.
Now, just bury this damned thing already. _________________ http://forums.pleasurebonbon.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=238903#238903- Wolf & Grimm!
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Tearlach Royal Member of BonBon

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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 1:26 pm Post subject: |
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This hatchet needs to be put into a casket, locked, and berryed in the grave yard.
So ok i get it, the two in question dont like each other for some unknown reason like a mongose and a cobra. But you two constantly fighting over it, and one of you leaveing over is just freaken childish. so is both partys were here i would have sugested that they just agree that they are going to disagree, and agree to not bother each other and keep ther distance. |
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