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mackwell · Rank: Senior Member Joined: 06 Dec 2009 Posts: 312

not sure if i posted this already, but i just got married recently. "boo hiss". ok, my take on the whole thing. married life is great in certain aspects, however, when you live together you start to notice things about each other. first thing, she has this habit of re arranging the house everyday. i can never find anything, but she knows where it is. the second thing is she has this habit of buying me a to go breakfast every morning, when i can eat for free on base. i know she means well but come on. the third thing is she is anal like crazy. everything has to be set up to perfection. i love her to death but i need some advice and no one is giving me any good advice. i thought i would ask on here because this forum seems to be more mature and wise than most other places. and i also dont want to spend any money on advice either Very Happy

. can you help a guy out?
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Maxwell The Tiger · Rank: Super Veteran Joined: 23 Nov 2009 Posts: 4436

So what your saying is you are finding out little things about how she is and it is irritating you? I'm not the best person to talk to about Relationships though, The last one ended swiftly enough *Ahem*
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mackwell · Rank: Senior Member Joined: 06 Dec 2009 Posts: 312

yeah most likely. it's not that it's irritating as it is a shock. she never did this stuff before
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Wolf Stride · Rank: Super Veteran Joined: 18 Dec 2009 Posts: 7678

Well, from what i know people tend to hold back certain habits at first when they get married as to not make a bad example.
Once the deed is done, they try some old perks or habits they used to do to please their mate.
Basically, she is trying to make you happy.
The best way to take care of the situation is to show her that you are happy and make her happy in turn.
She might change her habits towards you to ones that you would think are agreeable, or you could ask her something different.
Hope that works.
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Rune174 · Royal Member of BonBon Joined: 29 May 2009 Posts: 6010

I'm not so big on advice since I never been in a relationship before since school never seems to go away. But if you look at common sense, the only thing that you can do is try to compromise with her. You do something for her in exchange for what she can do for you.
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mackwell · Rank: Senior Member Joined: 06 Dec 2009 Posts: 312

it's just a shock thing i suppose. i'll get over it eventually most likely
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Maxwell The Tiger · Rank: Super Veteran Joined: 23 Nov 2009 Posts: 4436

I think it calls for an immediate divorce.

Joking...Or Am I?

Yeah I am.
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Maxwell The Tiger · Rank: Super Veteran Joined: 23 Nov 2009 Posts: 4436

*In a Cold Voice*

"Frankly My Dear, I Don't Give A Damn."
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Vanja · Rank: Rookie Joined: 19 Sep 2007 Posts: 85

I'm not an expert on things like these... ^^

But to me, it seems like she is just trying to please you, and keep the home in order and such. However, if her habits turns out to bother you a lot, I guess the best thing is to talk to her about it. And maybe as quick as possible, before things have dragged out and she thinks everything is ok and that you're happy with what she's doing. I guess things like these are best solved at an early stage...but then again, I'm not an expert... ^^;

However, as you say it may be a shock thing to see these changes in her behaviour, and maybe it's not really that they bother you that much, it's more the change that does?

Good luck, anyway! ^_^
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mackwell · Rank: Senior Member Joined: 06 Dec 2009 Posts: 312

well i talked to her about it and she honestly doesnt know what i mean. so i had to explain to her, and i think it's all gonna be good
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Wolf Stride · Rank: Super Veteran Joined: 18 Dec 2009 Posts: 7678

Hope for the best and explain to her about unconscious habits.
This almost always works.
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mackwell · Rank: Senior Member Joined: 06 Dec 2009 Posts: 312

i try to use humor to cover up how i want to say it. like i'll say things like "is that a canadian thing?" because she likes jokes about canadians for some reason. and she is canadian, so dont hink i hate canadians. i just dont want to hurt her feelings is all.
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