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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
Joined: 23 Jun 2009 Posts: 6
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Posted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 8:42 pm Post subject: An apology for Ms. Baggett |
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Hello Ms. Baggett,
I am writing this letter to express my sincere apology for the actions of my son. When I found out what he was doing I immediatley took away his laptop and I can assure you that he will never bother you again. This apology is not only for you, but to your entire board. As you have seen my son Steve has some emotional problems(bipolar). He lacks the understanding and emotional development to handle problems the way you and I would. It is troubling as a parent to know my son has caused problems on your forum with his horrible writting. I can't tell you how sad and dissapointed this whole travesty has made me. Not to mention the horrible affects that you and your board had to go through. I always thought that I raised him better than that. I hope that you and your forum friends can accept this apology for my son's childish acts.
Sincerly,
Tom Jonett |
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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
Joined: 23 Jun 2009 Posts: 6
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 4:17 am Post subject: |
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Hi Alley,
This is Steve. I am using my father's account since I can longer use mine. I asked him and he said I could apologize for myself. I want to say that I am truly sorry for all the mean and disrespectful things that I said to you ,Kriss, Doazo, MT and the rest of the forum. I had a very long talk with my father and he explained to me how much hurt and unrest that I caused in the forum. That what I thought was funny was really hurtful and mean. I guess the reason that I got so defensive was because everyone was right about me. I don't have any self estem and causing problems to make myself feel better. I guess this is why I don't have any friends and no one at school likes me. I was feeling bad after I made my last post and I did try to go on the forum to delete it, but I couldn't get on. When I found out the thread was deleted I felt even worse. My father asked me what was wrong so I told him everything. I knew I took my comments too far and I wanted to make it right in some way. I know it is impossible to make it right, but I hope that you could find it in your heart to forgive me. Please let me know if there is anyway I could try to make this up to you and the forum members. I know the first thing will be to never come back to your forum, but if there is anything else that I could do please tell me. I would also request a small favor from you. You must be thinking "are you kidding me". Please delete all my posts. Nobody needs to read that mean spirited nonsense anymore. I have disrespected everyone enough already so please let it end. I know I have a lot of growing up to do to become a decent adult. My father is going to send me to another doctor so I can talk about my feelings. I plan on doing my best with the therapy as I will have plenty of time to think about things as I am grounded until school starts. Incase you were wondering why I came on your forum in the first place, it was because I thought you were beautiful. I am so sorry that I took advantage of your kindness. I know I am a loser right now and don't deserve foregiveness for what I did to you. I would understand if you didn't accept my apology and wished that I would drop dead. It would be be ok if you thought that. I think that way too sometimes. I hope people do buy you lots of nice things for your birthday. OMG the post I made in your birthday thread is in my head again. I can't believe I said that to you. I am so sad right now I can't believe it. This hurts so bad. Not only do I have the guilt from what I did on your forum I know that I also hurt my father. I don't know what to do. I hope you have a great birthday Alley. I wish you peace and happiness.
I am so sorry Kriss you didn't deserve what I said to you. Doazo and MT you were right to stick up for Alley. I am sorry for my mean comments. I am sure you three are really nice people.
I also want to say I am sorry to the forum. I wish you all the best. Thank you all for reading this.
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zixi Rank: Casual
Joined: 23 Dec 2007 Posts: 31
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 4:48 pm Post subject: |
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talking about double personalities ,huh !!!!! |
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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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Hello Zixi,
My son has a bipolar disorder he doesn't have multiple personalities. He suffers from periods of extreme ups and downs along with a lack of self control. Since you are the first one of Ms. Baggett's forum friends to post I want to take this opportunity to aplogize to you if anything my son wrote upset you in anyway.
Thank You,
Tom Jonett |
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Poecilotheria_27 Rank: Junior Member

Joined: 05 Feb 2009 Posts: 124
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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Your son deserves a pat on the back for that apology. Its a step in the right direction to feeling better about himself. I'm sure he feels relief coming clean.
..and considering the hurdles of life that you and your son are facing (like everyone else), I think you're doing a fine job as a father. Nobody ever said it would be easy.
I apologize for my post also, I don't know who ever read it or if anybody even did. I figured he was going to reply to anybody's posts anyway, so I minus well give him something to reply to.
...and yes, we're all here because Alley is the most beautiful woman on the web. This fact will umbrella the happiness of all forum members through any wild postings which may shade these forums.
Good luck to you and your son. |
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Poecilotheria_27 Rank: Junior Member

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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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Not to mention that she's also very kind, and considerate of others and the environment. She makes sacrifices to do her part in helping save the planet and preserve it the way that it should be.
She's just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. I'm just calling it as I see it. |
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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
Joined: 23 Jun 2009 Posts: 6
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 8:30 pm Post subject: |
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Hello Poecilotheria_27,
I appreciate your kind words regarding my son and myself. He is feeling much better since he told me what he had done and made his apology. He is really a great kid and I am proud that he wanted make his own apology. It is hard as a parent to see your child hurting and you want to do everything you can to make it better. I don't know what my son said in reponse to your post and I do hope it wasn't unpleasant. No apology is need from you, but I hope that you will accept Steve's apology. I do not know Ms. Baggett, but from what I hear she is a very lovely woman. I am glad you all have a nice place here.
Thanks,
Tom Jonett |
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Poecilotheria_27 Rank: Junior Member

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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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I never had the chance to read the post he left in response to mine. But I accept the apology anyway.
I wouldn't feel too bad about what he's doing, because after all, he's really doing it to himself. This is all a learning process for him and a stronger man will be built from it all in the long run. I've done my share of really stupid things when I was younger. If those stupid things weren't done, I wouldn't be able to look back at those stupid things and understand why they were stupid in the first place.  |
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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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Hello Again Poecilotheria_27,
Thank you for accepting the apology. I appreciate it and I know it will make Steve happy. The main point that I wanted him to take from all of this is that words can hurt. Even if just on a forum. The people who you talk with are human beings. As a Christian I have tried to teach him proper values "to treat others as you would want to be treated yourself". His acting out makes me feel that I have not done everything I could as a father. I feel worried, helpless at times, but I know how special he is and want him to be happy. I will do whatever it takes to make that happen.
Thanks Again,
Tom |
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AlleyBaggett Official Model

Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 2358
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 10:22 pm Post subject: |
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Apology accepted. I understand.
Now, hopefully we can all move on...
Thanks.
 _________________ xoxoxo
ALLEY!
AlleyBaggett.Net - The Official Site
http://www.alleybaggett.net |
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Mr. Jonett Rank: Total Noob
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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Ms. Baggett,
My son and I thank you for your generosity in accepting his apology. I wanted to say a few more things to you, but I want to respect the fact that you just want to move on. God Bless you and your foregiving heart.
Thank You,
Tom Jonett |
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Kenjamin Rank: Junior Member
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Posted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 10:44 am Post subject: |
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Everything is okay now. And that's good. Though it's unfortunate that these things happen. Hopefully everyone is better for it. |
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